While it's not a holy day proper, Ash Wednesday is, interestingly, a day when Catholics all over the world feel the need to attend Mass.
There's something in us that calls us to participate in this kickoff to Lent. It's like the opening ceremony of the Olympics. With these funny ashes on our foreheads, now we can begin the Christian game anew, taking on the specific challenges of renewed prayer, fasting, and almsgiving.
Ashes are an external sign of penance. They are a reminder that we all will experience death and we don't have forever to repent, to "get right" with God. Jesus has victory over death in the end. With him by our side, what have we to fear?
As our Lenten season begins, how will this year be different? What concrete steps will you take to allow Jesus to live in you more fully? Who will you trust to walk alongside you as companions and friends?
After watching this message from Bishop Barron on how to "get the most out of" Lent this year, pondering these questions:
What challenges do I foresee this Lent?
How can I create a new routine of prayer this week?
When I fast, who can I offer up my discomfort for? Who can I pray for?
LENTEN FAST AND ABSTINENCE During this season of Lent, the Church urges the faithful to reflect a spirit of penance in their daily lives through performing acts of fast and abstinence. • Lent begins on Ash Wednesday, February 18 and ends on the evening of Holy Thursday, April 2. • Ash Wednesday and Good Friday are days of fasting and abstinence. This is a serious matter within Church law. • Fasting means only one full meal a day may be taken. Two smaller meals may be eaten to maintain physical strength but together they should not equal another full meal in quantity. Snacking between meals is not permitted. Catholics ages 18-59 are obligated to fast on Good Friday. Those who are not specifically obliged to fast are encouraged to join in the discipline of fasting to the extent that they are able. • Abstinence forbids the eating of meat or poultry. Those who have reached the age of 14 and older are obliged to abstain on all Fridays of Lent. • Those who are not specifically obliged to abstain from eating meat are urged to join in the discipline of abstaining to the extent that they are able. • All Fridays of the year are designated as days of penance during which we are encouraged to practice self-denial out of gratitude for the suffering and death Jesus accepted for us.
The journey of Lent now brings us to the Cross. All the steps of the season lead here. Prayer, fasting, charity, mercy, and conversion come together as we walk with Christ into Holy Week, trusting that love will have the final word. Lent now brings us to the Cross. The Gospel slows down and tells the story step by step. We see betrayal, fear, silence, and suffering. The crowds change quickly. Friends become distant. Yet through every moment, Jesus remains faithful. The Cross stands at the center of this week, not as a sign of defeat, but as a sign of love that does not turn away. Palm Sunday begins with joy. Branches are raised. Voices shout praise. Yet the same story leads us toward the Passion. This movement reminds us how quickly the human heart can change. Lent invites us to stay close to Christ not only in moments of celebration but also in times of struggle. The Cross teaches us to see love in a new way. Jesus does not answer violence with anger. He does not defend Himself with power. He walks forward with quiet trust. Many people expect strength to look loud and certain. The Gospel shows a different kind of strength — patient, steady, and faithful. As Holy Week begins, we are invited to slow down even more. The story is not meant to be rushed. Each scene invites reflection. A shared meal. A lonely garden. A heavy cross carried through the streets. These moments speak to our own lives. We recognize fear, doubt, and hope within them. Standing before the Cross can feel uncomfortable. It asks us to look honestly at suffering, both in the world and in our own hearts. Yet it also reveals mercy. Jesus forgives even as He suffers. He entrusts everything to the Father. The Cross becomes a place where love remains stronger than pain. This final theme gathers all the steps of Lent together. Prayer has taught us to listen. Fasting has helped us let go. Almsgiving has opened our hearts to others. Mercy has changed how we see. Conversion has invited us into new life. Now the Cross shows us where this journey leads — toward a love that gives itself completely. As we move into Holy Week, we walk quietly beside Jesus. We do not need many words. Presence is enough. The Cross stands as a reminder that even in darkness, God is at work. And beyond the silence of Good Friday, Easter already waits. * * * * * As this Lenten journey reaches its quiet end, we stand near the Cross with grateful hearts. Step by step, we have learned to turn back to God, to pray, to let go, to give, to show mercy, and to begin again. None of these steps were meant to be perfect. They were meant to lead us closer to Christ. Now the Church grows still, waiting for the light of Easter morning. What we have practiced in small ways during Lent does not end here. It continues in the way we live, speak, and love each day. The Cross does not close the story. It prepares us to receive new life. Wishing you a Blessed Holy Week, Fr. Slawek
Mercy prepares the heart for real change. When we experience forgiveness, we find courage to begin again. The story of Lazarus reminds us that God calls each of us toward new life, even when hope feels distant. As Lent draws closer to Holy Week, the call to conversion becomes more personal and clearer. The Gospel tells the story of Lazarus. It is a story of loss, waiting, and new life. Jesus arrives when hope seems almost gone. Yet He calls Lazarus out of the tomb. This moment reminds us that change is always possible with God. Conversion is not only about feeling sorry for the past. It is about stepping into a new way of living. Many people think conversion must be dramatic. Sometimes it is quiet. A small decision. A new habit. A deeper trust. Like Lazarus, we may feel wrapped in what holds us back. Jesus invites us to step forward into freedom. The Gospel shows strong emotions. Martha speaks honestly. Mary weeps. Jesus Himself is moved. Conversion does not ignore real feelings. It meets them with hope. Lent allows us to bring our fears, doubts, and struggles before God. Nothing is hidden from Him. There are moments when we feel stuck, as if nothing can change. The stone before the tomb can look heavy. Yet Jesus asks the people around Him to roll it away. Conversion often begins with one simple action. We open the door just a little, and God does the rest. This week invites us to listen for the voice that calls us by name. Jesus does not shout to a crowd. He speaks directly to Lazarus. In the same way, He speaks personally to each of us. Conversion grows when we hear that call and respond with trust. As the journey continues, the tone of Lent becomes more focused. We prepare to walk with Christ toward the Cross. Conversion helps us let go of fear and step into new life. It reminds us that God never stops calling us forward.
As we learn to give, our hearts become more gentle. Mercy changes the way we see the world. Like the man born blind in the Gospel, we begin to recognize God’s presence where we once saw only weakness.
As we learn to give, our hearts slowly become more gentle. Mercy begins to shape how we see the world. The Gospel tells the story of the man born blind. Jesus sees him when others pass by. He does not begin with judgment or explanation. He begins with compassion. Mercy starts in the way we look at others.
Many voices in the Gospel ask who is to blame. They want simple answers. Jesus responds differently. He restores sight. He opens a new future. Mercy does not focus only on the past. It creates space for new life to begin.
Sometimes we also see only what is broken. We notice mistakes, weaknesses, or failures – in others and in ourselves. Lent gently teaches us to look again. When Jesus heals the blind man, He also challenges the crowd to see more clearly. Mercy changes vision. It helps us recognize dignity where we once saw only limits.
Receiving mercy can feel difficult. The man must trust Jesus even when he does not fully understand what is happening. In the same way, we are invited to trust that God works patiently within us. Mercy does not rush. It walks slowly with the heart.
This week is a good time to practice simple acts of mercy. Listening without interrupting. Offering forgiveness. Speaking gently when it would be easier to react with anger. These choices may seem small, but they change the atmosphere around us. They reflect the light that Christ brings into the world.
Mercy also helps us grow in humility. The Gospel reminds us that spiritual blindness can happen when we think we see everything clearly. Lent encourages us to remain open. We allow God to show us where we need healing. We learn to accept grace instead of trying to control everything.
As the journey continues, mercy prepares us for deeper conversion. When we experience kindness, our hearts become ready to change. We begin to see ourselves and others through the eyes of Christ. Step by step, the light grows stronger, guiding us toward the joy of Easter.
When we begin to live with less, our eyes open to others. Fasting leads naturally into generosity. Almsgiving invites us to share time, attention, and kindness, just as Christ meets the woman at the well. When we begin to live with less, our hearts open more easily to others. This is where almsgiving begins. Many people think first about money or donations. Yet the Gospel of the Samaritan woman shows something deeper. Jesus meets someone who feels unseen and tired. He begins not by giving things, but by giving attention. He listens. He speaks with kindness. He offers living water. Almsgiving begins with seeing others. It means noticing the person who stands in front of us. Sometimes we hurry through the day and forget how much people need simple presence. The woman at the well arrives carrying her own burdens. Jesus meets her where she is. He does not rush the conversation. He opens a path toward hope. Giving is not always about big gestures. Often it begins with small acts. A patient word. A moment of listening. A quiet prayer for someone who struggles. These simple choices shape the heart. They remind us that faith is lived through relationships. Almsgiving also changes us. When we give our time or attention, we step outside of ourselves. We begin to see the world through different eyes. The Samaritan woman leaves her water jar behind because she has discovered something greater. When we give generously, we also receive. We discover that love grows when it is shared. This week invites us to ask a simple question: who needs my attention today? The answer may be close to home. A family member. A neighbor. Someone at church. Almsgiving does not need to be complicated. It grows through daily kindness. Lent slowly opens the heart. Prayer teaches us to listen to God. Fasting teaches us to let go. Almsgiving teaches us to give ourselves. Together, these steps lead us closer to the joy that waits at Easter.
As prayer grows deeper, Lent invites us to let go of what distracts us. Fasting helps us focus on what truly matters. It is not only about giving something up. It is about making space for God’s light to guide us. As prayer grows deeper, Lent gently introduces us to fasting. Many people hear this word and think only about food. Yet the Gospel of the Transfiguration shows something deeper. Jesus leads His disciples up the mountain. There, in a moment of light, they see who He truly is. Before we let go of something, we are first invited to see more clearly. Fasting is not meant to make life smaller. It helps us notice what fills our hearts. When we step away from noise or comfort, we begin to see what truly matters. The disciples wanted to stay on the mountain, to hold on to the moment. But Jesus leads them back down into daily life. Fasting teaches us that faith is lived not only in special moments but in ordinary days. Sometimes fasting feels uncomfortable. We become aware of habits that keep us busy or distracted. Yet this discomfort can become a gift. It opens space. It reminds us that we are not controlled by every desire. Like the disciples, we learn to listen again to the voice of God: “This is my beloved Son. Listen to Him.” Fasting is also about focus. We let go of something small so that our attention can return to what is greater. It may be less time on a screen, fewer unnecessary words, or choosing patience instead of reaction. These simple choices help us grow in freedom. They teach us that we can live with less and still be full of peace. The Transfiguration shows that God is already at work in ways we do not always see. When we fast, we clear space to recognize that light. We begin to notice grace in quiet places. We become more aware of others. We listen more carefully. Fasting becomes not a burden but a path toward clarity. This week invites us to ask a gentle question: what do I hold on to that keeps me from seeing God more clearly? The answer does not need to be dramatic. Even one small change can open the heart. Lent is not about proving strength. It is about learning trust. As we continue the journey, fasting prepares us for the next step. When we let go of what distracts us, we become more ready to give ourselves to others. The path of Lent moves slowly, but each step leads us closer to Easter light.
My prayers are with you as the Lenten journey continues, Fr. Slawek
After we begin to turn our hearts toward God, the next step is prayer. The Gospel leads us into the desert with Jesus. Here we learn to listen before we act. Prayer becomes the foundation for everything that follows.
The Church now guides us into the desert with Jesus. The Gospel shows Him in silence. There is no crowd, no noise, no applause. Only prayer. This is where Lent truly begins. Before we change habits or make plans, we learn again how to stay close to God.
Many people think prayer must be long or complicated. Yet the Gospel shows something simple. Jesus stands in the desert and keeps His heart turned toward the Father. He answers temptation with trust. Prayer is not about perfect words. It is about relationship. It is about remembering who we belong to.
The desert is not an easy place. It feels quiet, even empty. Prayer can feel the same way. Sometimes we sit in silence and wonder if anything is happening. Lent reminds us that God works gently. Growth often happens where we do not see it right away. Silence becomes a space where faith can breathe.
The temptations in the Gospel offer quick solutions. Comfort without sacrifice. Power without humility. Recognition without love. Jesus answers with the Word of God. Prayer helps us do the same. It slows us down. It helps us listen before reacting. It teaches us to choose what lasts, not only what feels good in the moment.
This week, prayer can begin in very small ways. A quiet minute before Mass. A short Scripture line carried through the day. A simple “Thank You” before sleep. These small moments shape the heart slowly. They help us notice that God walks beside us even in ordinary hours.
Prayer also prepares us for everything that follows in Lent. Fasting makes sense when it grows from prayer. Charity becomes real when it begins in prayer. When we take time to be with God, our actions start to reflect His patience and mercy.
The First Sunday of Lent reminds us that Jesus does not avoid struggle. He enters it with trust. When we pray, we stand with Him in the desert. We learn that God is near even when life feels dry. Prayer does not remove every difficulty, but it gives us strength to walk forward with hope.
As we grow in prayer this week, I ask you in a very concrete way to pray for our parish community. Pray for those who already serve, and pray that others may feel called to step forward. Our parish depends on many generous people. Some serve at the altar. Some greet at the doors. Some proclaim the Word. Some distribute Holy Communion. Others work quietly behind the scenes. We are grateful for each one of them.
At the same time, we truly need more members in several ministries, especially those connected to the altar. If you have ever considered serving as an usher, a lector, or an extraordinary minister of Holy Communion, this may be the right moment to take that step. Strong liturgies do not happen by accident. They are supported by faithful, prepared people.
Each week during Lent, different parish groups will be present in the Atrium after Mass. I encourage you to stop, ask questions, and see where you might belong. Prayer leads us closer to God. It also leads us toward service. Perhaps this Lent is the time to find your place. Wishing you a prayerful Lent, Fr. Slawek
Lent begins quietly. We start with ashes and a simple invitation to return to God. Before anything else changes, our hearts are invited to turn again toward Him. This first step sets the direction for the whole journey.
Lent begins with a simple invitation: return to God. The ashes placed on our foreheads are quiet signs. They remind us that life moves quickly and that our hearts need direction. Ash Wednesday is not only about sacrifice. It is about beginning again.
In the Gospel, Jesus speaks about prayer, fasting, and almsgiving. Yet He points first to the heart. He warns us not to live our faith only on the outside. God looks at what is hidden. Lent invites us to step away from noise and rediscover what truly matters.
To turn back to God does not mean that we start from nothing. It means that we pause and look honestly at where we are. Some people come to Lent with energy. Others feel tired or distracted. God meets each person exactly there. The ashes do not judge us. They remind us that we belong to Him.
This first step of Lent is quiet. We slow down. We listen again. We allow silence to enter our day. When we stop rushing, we begin to notice how much we need grace. Turning back to God is less about strong emotions and more about a steady decision. It is a choice made one small moment at a time.
Ash Wednesday also teaches humility. We remember that we are created and loved. We remember that we depend on God. Yet there is hope in this moment. The ashes mark not an ending but a path that leads toward Easter. Every prayer and every small act of kindness become part of that journey.
Jesus reminds us that the Father sees in secret. Lent becomes a quiet conversation between God and the soul. We do not need to impress anyone. We simply walk honestly with the Lord. This honesty opens the door for real change.
As Lent begins, one simple question stays with us: where is my heart today? Perhaps it feels restless. Perhaps it longs for peace. Wherever we stand, God invites us forward. Turning back to Him is not a single moment. It is a daily movement. Step by step, grace leads us toward new life.
As we continue through Lent, each week will have a theme to accompany us on our journey:
Lenten Themes:
February 18: Ash Wednesday – Turning Back to God
February 19 – 25: Prayer – Making Space for God
February 26 – March 4: Fasting – Learning Self-Control
March 5 – 11: Almsgiving – Learning to Give
March 12 – 18: Mercy – Returning to the Father
March 19 – 25: Conversion – Changing the Heart
March 26 – April 1: The Cross – Walking with Christ
Watch the bulletin, Flocknote and the parish website for reflections on these themes that will also be emphasized during Mass. Confession times will also be posted and Stations of the Cross will take place on Fridays during Lent at 9:30 in the morning following Daily Mass and again at 6 p.m. First Friday Adoration also returns on March 6, 4 – 11 p.m. I invite you to take some time and spend it with Jesus and reflect on His journey to the Cross.
Along with Fr. Edison, Deacon Tom and Deacon Dan, we wish you all a blessed Lent as we journey together to renew and strengthen our faith and walk with Jesus.